I like starting the week out with some too-deep thoughts, because Mondays are so easy anyway, right?
So here’s my question:
Do you prefer alone time or to be most typically in a group of people/ not alone?
And you can’t say, ‘well it depends on my mood’, or ‘it always changes’. I’m talking about overall, most of the time, generally, etc.
Imagine this is one of those kiddy games where you have to choose, like ‘would you rather’, that’s the game.
See I myself will always choose a group of people or another person. I have always been this way; clingy as a kid to my grandparents and father, clingy in high school to my best friend, and clingy right now to my fiance. I really hate being alone, I have this desperate feeling of ‘fomo: fear of missing out’ and anxiety about being alone that I tend to just walk around my house waiting for someone to come talk to me or call me.
But here recently I’ve been craving alone time, sometimes to myself to think about my life personally and decide what I want to do with my day and then just…do it and not worry about what others around me think.
Here’s some food for thought: https://www.psychologytoday.com/blog/in-flux/201410/the-importance-being-alone